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I’ve heard women complain about their roles as bridesmaids before, but I never understood why until this picture. I always assumed it had to do with organizing the bridal shower and wearing an ugly dress. Turns out periwinkle is the least of these ladies’ problems.
Of course, it would be nice to see the groom in the submissive role for once. Sometimes men need to STFU too, ya know.
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new meaning to “honor and obey”?
I’ll just bet that the groomsmen are wearing ass-less, leather chaps!
What is that on their mouths? Or is it their tongues?
those are called ball gags…it forces the mouth to stay open
Simple cheap generic ball gag. Slightly too large though. He could have gone with a ring gag for better effect. Or at least a wiffle ball gag.
Whiffle ballgag? Wow.
my ballgag is 2 inches in diameter and i’ve never had an issue fitting it in my mouth.
Nah, the cheap ones have string you tie that really cut into the sides of the mouth. Those are the better ones, way more comfortable.
And what woman in her right mind would want a submissive man? Submissive men are boring and a total turn off.
You may be right about the string thing. I’ve never shopped that cheaply though. One wonders if this is a set shot, or they went through the ceremony this way.
/And what woman in her right mind would want a submissive man? Submissive men are boring and a total turn off./
Excuse me? I guess femdoms don’t exist then. Or is it that we exist, but we’re mentally unstable for getting off on being the dominant partner in bed? My sub BF would also object to that.
Really, you allow him to object?!
How else would She be able to punish him? Go Capt Lila! Livin the Lifestyle!
He’s allowed to object to things – things that I object to!
You’re awesome. xD
Geez, learn to take a joke. *rolls her eyes*
“And what woman in her right mind would want a submissive man? Submissive men are boring and a total turn off.”
I’m sorry, where was the “JK” or emoticon or any other indication that you were joking? You were offensive, and you know it. That’s why you’re backpedaling now with the “it was just a joke~!” Classic defense of someone who has no defense.
jami is a tool. You’ll learn that quickly.
Plus…she can’t sing.
you can’t be seriously accusing her of being offensive while posting comments to an S&M wedding picture? the whole thing is ‘offensive’ in some way or another. Lighten up.
Oh, that would’ve spoiled the dresses =P But a ring gag for the meal, so they can be gagged and fed, that’s better.
‘s a ball gag. No, you don’t wanna know.
It’s called ball-gags : nice addition to the fact they’re tied-up ^^ Basicaly, juste a ball, hold by a strap. Can be any size, any color.
WTF? Their faces look serious too.
Why wouldn’t they be serious? If it’s really a D/s wedding, they probably all subscribe to a submissive lifestyle. Although gosh, it’s got to be hard to find a whole group of submissive bridesmaids.
Stuff like this sort of angers me though because it just serves to make people think that D/s is just for kooky, unstable attention whores. It kind of makes the whole thing a joke. There’s no practical reason for a group of submissives to wear a ball gag during a wedding ceremony, it just seems cartoony.
I daresay it’s for a photo shoot, and not an actual wedding. For one thing, how will she say “I do”?
Like this: MRPHPHMMRHUH *drool*
How the heck are you supposed to smile with one of those in your mouth?
Is this one staged too?
“Mommy, why won’t you and Daddy let me look at your wedding photos?”
That is too awesome for words.
Hardtied sponsored wedding is definitely the way to go.
And as far as submissive grooms go I have two things:
1. There are just as many boner killing sites about male subs. Or rather, female doms.
2. Males are already expected to play the submissive role in every single facet of a relationship. Why if both parties are interested, can’t guys have one place to dom and not have it be “wrong” or “abusive”?
And before you misunderstand what I’m saying, think about the last time the guy held the brunt of the decision making in a relationship and people accepted it. We make all sorts of sayings for why women telling men what to do is acceptable(if momma ain’t happy ain’t nobody happy, when you’re married you can either be happy or right, etc.). But if a guy holds the same position, there has to be an issue taken with it. Either it’s abusive after some mental gymnastics or suddenly it becomes a humanity problem that no one should have someone tell them what to do. And while I know that I have some serious issues in this department, I also think that I do still have a point.
Alright, done ranting.
I think the fact that all government forms default “Head Of Household” as the male partner, and my first homebuyer contract listed me as “Miss_, An unmarried woman” still speaks for the general zeitgeist of the US. Besides, my objection is that they didn’t even bother to match the gag to the gown color! BLASPHEMY!
Gender bias issues aside, the truth is the vast majority of the population is submissive, male and female. It’s just less socially acceptable for men to be openly submissive.
I agree with you, i am a feminist, and being a girl sub i see it hard to accept males subs. Not that i don’t, i think girls can be dom as much as guys and it’s fine, just hard to picture myself as. But your right, the guys are expected to give girls more right, almost because girls having rights is so new. I think that girls and gusy should, but don’t have equal rights, and that is what makes us all rush to try to give women more power. It’s crazy, we all know.
http://www.tinyeye.com rocks. Here are more pics from the Ball-Gag wedding.
http://www.harmonyconcepts.com/www/rsite/videos/ka/ka6/ka6.htm
My wife and I are into S&M . . . she Sleeps, i Masturbate.
Muahahah! That made my trip to this site more than worth it!
And she’s fugly.
Yeah I read alot of the comments on here AND I also researched the whole submissve thing but to me its still creepy. I just can’t see myself saying “Yes master” and mean it o_0
Also those dresses are worse than the gag balls in there mouth.
this is sad..my first thought was “couldn’t they color coordinate the ball gags?” ;P
This is part of a video done by harmony concepts, it is all staged. harmony does bondage videos and photosets.
Kudos to maize5, james and maven.
I don’t know… I mean, I like a little force and all, and the idea of a “traditional” wedding where the groom steals the bride makes me blush all kinds of crazy, but I’m too strong-willed for this kind of thing. My family doesn’t raise weak women, and I don’t see the point of dominating someone who’s just going to lie there and take it. If you don’t have to fight for it, it’s boring.
SO, that means this pic has been pirated and uploaded. And Wedinator’s URL placed on the bottom. That’s illegal. Stealing other people’s work and claiming it as your own is not cool, wedinator.
This is one way to make sure no one objects at the wedding.